To reward my subscribers for helping me write more, this will be a subscriber-only post until next week. — Communication — A lot of grown men act rape-y and pushy. A lot of men who should know better badger women endlessly into having sex with them. Women have to protect themselves against men spiking drinks, attempted abductions, or following them home. Many men will retaliate when a woman says no, either physically or with more subversive means.